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Why is it so hard to be objective when we're angry?

 We live in a culture that perpetually inundates us with content designed to evoke a visceral response.

 We see a triggering video, hear a controversial statement, and our brain’s ability to control our reaction goes out the window.

 Our amygdala fires almost instantly, even before we have time to fully process the situation, and our threat-detection system kicks into full gear.

Before you know it, you’re in a high-stress state. The body floods with cortisol and adrenaline. Palms sweat, pupils dilate, and the gut churns.

In that moment, rationality escapes us. We make poor judgments. We take irreversible actions.

Potential Consequences:

  • Destroyed trust

  • Physical harm

  • Damaged professional reputation

  • Abuse and isolation 

But the question becomes: how can we mitigate the risks of our brain’s natural response system?

It starts with recognizing your emotions in the moment (easier said than done, of course). After this, you can use these ten simple rules to move toward objective decision-making. (1)

 Ten Steps

  1. Break decisions into smaller parts

  2. Mitigate bias with the right processes and supports

  3. Be aware of your decision horizon (short vs. long term)

  4. Seek diverse perspectives, especially people who disagree

  5. Battle confirmation bias by looking for disconfirming evidence

  6. Use quantitative and objective criteria wherever possible

  7. Make decisions transparent and explicit (reasons, criteria)

  8. Recognize when emotions are high and possibly postpone decision-making

  9. Reduce complexity when possible; simplify your framework

  10. Evaluate decisions after the fact; learn from outcomes to improve future decisions

Final Thoughts 

Given the current climate of national and global politics, it’s important to remember that much of what we see, read, and hear is designed to induce a reaction, sometimes for monetary gain, sometimes for more sinister motives.

However, we are all responsible for our own agency, and cultivating objectivity is the only way forward.

We all have thoughts and opinions shaped by our beliefs, and it’s easy to get upset at those we disagree with. Personal growth comes from listening to both sides of an argument, thinking critically (without being ruled by emotion), and arriving at rational judgments.

 It’s okay to change your mind, and it’s okay to disagree. What matters is that we converse as kind, empathetic, and grateful individuals. The future will belong to those who can disagree without destroying, and think critically without losing their humanity..

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